Wednesday, November 21, 2012

can i work with my carta di soggiorno in Denmark

can i work with my carta di soggiorno in Denmark?
i want to know if i can work with my carta di soggiorno in Denmark am living in italy at the moment
Denmark - 1 Answers
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It depends on your citizenship. If you're an EU citizen you can work and live in any EU country (and the EEA zone). The Carta di Soggiorno is also a residency permit. It is more like the US “green card” in that it is a permanent document. Whereas the Permesso di Soggiorno has to be renewed, the Carta di Soggiorno does not expire, and needs to be renewed periodically only if you want to use it as a form of identification. The requirements for obtaining a Carta di Soggiorno are slightly different for EU and non-EU citizens. EU citizens can apply for the Carta di Soggiorno immediately after their arrival in italy, in contrast to non-EU citizens that have to accumulate enough time as a resident in Italy to apply for the Carta. So, it's back to where are you from?





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Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Do you like to get a lot of attention from men

Do you like to get a lot of attention from men?
I live in denmark and i usually get quite a reasonable amount of attention from men, they whistle and look but that is it (i am not boasting please, but i am good looking girl with blond hair blue eys), i went to itali and got VERY much attention from men, all the time, very very very much, whistle, look, stranger talking to me and very touchy!!!! But i dont mind this, i like attention it makes me feel nice:D What ab out you?
Singles & Dating - 16 Answers
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All women want attention and for men to remind them that they are attractive.
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not a fan personally
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ilovemyself.com
4 :
unless they are really pervy about it, otherwise its just flattering.
5 :
I don't like a lot of attention. I am very busty and that is usually the focus of male attention. I like looking and feeling good, but I really don't like the staring and rude comments at all.
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Of course. Who doesn't? If they tell you that they don't..they are lyin.
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yea i get a lot of attention and i LOVE IT!!!
8 :
im a guy so i dont get much attraction from other guys but my girl does!! she gets TOO MUCH attraction.. all of the guys i know has a thing for her!! i am not exaggerating, even my brother likes her!! and i hate it that everyone looks at her even when im around so im always on "protective mode"!!
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places like italy and turkey see women with blonde hair blue eyes very attractive like godesses because they only have true turkish and italy women that have dark features. its ok to like it a little bit but not too much you dont want to attract the wrong sort. i agree people should be happy with the way they look but theres a difference between being happy and loving themselves way too much dont fall into the trap.
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I only want it from my man. If I had doubts about whether or not other men find me atrractive, I'd probably want it from others as well.
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yes, its nice to get attention from men, it makes you feel good, but to much attention isnt good either. :-)
12 :
I like this kind of attention from guys too. I may be shallow, but it's both fun and reassuring. I had a similar kind of experience in Italy: the guys there are so overt, particularly at the beach!
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As long as its not in a pervy or creepy way then yeah male attention is always good! who doesn't like to be made to feel attractive!? :-)
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yeah, makes you feel more actractive :) x
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Every time I go someplace exotic, I get attention from men (more of it recently, mainly because I was 7 when I started travelling during the summer) and I kinda like it as long as they're not creepy old men and they don't try talking to me.
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Yes, i do get it maybe a bit TOO MUCH.. i get it where i live and also wherever i travel.. i like the attention at times but it bothers me a lot when old people tries to talk to me or whatever and i even get followed by guys at times..





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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

What would you do in my situation

What would you do in my situation?
I fell in love on my vacation last summer and we have been chatting online since that. We both feel the same and we miss each other very much. The problem is that he lives in Spain and I live in Denmark. What would you do in this situation?
Singles & Dating - 11 Answers
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meet at sweeden
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doesnt matter...if you guys really love eachother.. keep this relationship like this until you can invite him to Denmark sometime later in your life then make him Denmarkan too hahaha
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I would go and see him or ask him to come and see me
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Dude I met a girl here in UK, she is Spanish too. We fell in love, lived together for 6 months but her heart was stuck in Spain... She moved back to Spain and ever since then we just went down hill. I broke up with her a few days ago because the distance was too much and I couldn't see her making much effort. All I can say is don't rush things, make sure she's genuine and ask yourself... do you want a long distance relationship?... I don't... ever again lol EDIT: I'm afraid the girl below me speaks the truth... I know people say LDR work, but they rarely do and in my eyes it's just stupid, cos you want someone to hold etc and be there for you in person.
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I'd forget it. Will never work in a million years. Anyway, isn't the point of being in a relationship with someone, to spend TIME TOGETHER and not apart? Crazy.
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love will find its way around :), i was the same way, now im engaged and happy. he's the most amazing thing ever!. you just have to have lots of patience and trust. things will work out. just believe. <3
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Simple, if either of you can move in to live together then it is great. However, if you none can well I do advise you to end your 'online chatting' to her and as you find a girl over a short period you will have the time in the world to find a local girl. Don't put yourself under the torture of distance and "once a year" meeting. It will be hard at the beginning but you both will appreciate that later.
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Depends on your age and situation. If you're teenagers you might be able to stay pen pals. If you're adults with your educations finished and career options to relocate, perhaps you can pursue a relationship. Make him move to Denmark though. You can't give up your residency in a first tier economy to move to a place as economically volatile as Spain. If he really loves you he'll find a way to make it happen.
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It's really difficult to have a long distance relationship. I would suggest for the meantime enjoy each other’s companionship even if you only get to chat online or so. Never get too attached with the guy because sometimes relationship like this gets to be precarious. Maybe try to visit him some time. Who knows you may have enough reason to move with him in Spain or vice versa.
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Well I don't know your age. If you are an adult and he is an adult than travel to visit or if this becomes more serious one of you has to relocate. If you under age well than you have to do whatever your parents say. If it is not possible for either one of you to visit or relocate than you will have to look for someone else.Unless you are satisfied and he is satisfied with just on line chat.
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I can only speak from experience, I had met and dated a man for 2 years long distance. When it came down to making a major change in this to be closer neither one of us was willing to make a switch to give up jobs, family, friends that were near to where we are already. I kept in touch initially thinking about some way to maybe compromise. One day I called him and his brother answered the phone there as it was still a number in service then and said he had just moved in with some girl recently, I had not even known he had met someone else then. Someone told me once they felt with no change in that they had to move on to live otherwise and chose to find someone else. They may not have known the way to tell me that they felt they had to do that. I have since many years later now found a man locally (ironically any closer and we'd be next door neighbors) that I see every weekend. Even watched a football game together last night, that I get along so good with that I feel in hindsight it is for the best now. I just feel you are asking for heartache if you prolong or keep this long distance. I have a niece that was with a guy who lives in Germany and after 3 years he told her he can't handle the distance and had to break up. She even went to Germany for 2 weeks at a time each year. I feel that the distance is the main issue later usually. Best to let it go. I have had a same gender friend that lives in Sweden and I'm in the usa but we've kept in contact a lot less over the very many years now. It is to basically by email and that is when our time and jobs allow,etc. I feel that even friendship can be decreased feeling with such a factor.






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Thursday, November 1, 2012

I feel stuck where I live

I feel stuck where I live ...?
I know this is very confusing. I live in Denmark. The small country next to the beautiful country Sweden. Sweden is full of mountains and fields and animals - here in Denmark, it's just plain boring and not as nice as Sweden at all. I feel like ... like all Swedish people are so nice, beautiful, happy, they've got it all. But I'm so extremely jealous. I have a horrible self esteem. I wish I could just grab my family and friends and move them to Sweden. I don't know if this is normal, and what can I do to be happy about where I live? It gets worse every once in a while I read a bunch of Swedish blogs, and one of them feel the same way as me. I just don't understand her - why would she want to leave Sweden? It's not like I could move to Sweden, I'm a teenager, haha ...
Other - Society & Culture - 5 Answers
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Sweden only looks better because its not what you are used to. If you moved there you would eventually feel the same way about living there that you do about living in Denmark, take it from someone who has roamed around for years trying to find a place that feels "right" for me. I eventually learned that contentment comes from the inside and can be found no matter where you live, you just have to learn to be happy with yourself and look for the positives in any environment.
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some people are born to just want to have change i think you just need to step back adn notice whats really around you notice the little things you love because i can guarantee that when you move away you will notice that its not the same as before, i live in the US and i used to live in wisconsin and now live in colorado... yes it has everything but i miss who was in wisconsin and the lake and alot of other things if you want to move do it but just notice wat ur leaving behind first so you don't make any rash decisions
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Here in America we have a saying "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence". I've been to Denmark, I thought it was a beautiful country. There's always something that will be attractive about being some other place.
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Yes, I have envied Sweden for several years as well :) I am planning to move there while studying... I read a lot of statistics, and I looked at list of all the things I thought was important (equality, freedom of speech, helping the inviroment, happiness, etc) and Sweden was the only country in the world who was in the top 20 of every single list, so statistically, it is better :) BUT: I've heard from a lot of Swedes living in Denmark, and Danes living in Sweden, that they have more racism. I do not tolorate that. And also, Systembolaget: Strict rules on alchohol, either you drink thin drinks with 3,5% or you have to be 20, and even then there are limitations, and enourmous taxations. I am not sure I could do that. But, Sweden is not far away, you could get a dorm room in Malmø, and go to Gymnasium there?
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Well, the grass is always greener, as they say... Luckily for you it won't be difficult at all to move to Sweden. You could just move across the bridge if you want to be close to friends and family. Or you could move further north since you point out you're bored with Danish landscape. Further north in Sweden it's less flat and very different from Denmark. And you'd still be relatively close to your family and friends. But I think you're simply bored with where you're at now. Sweden and Denmark really aren't that different. You can try living in Sweden - even if you don't like it then you'd know that for sure. But I suspect your situation is just caused by boredom in general. Perhaps moving to a new city in Denmark after school ends would be an option? But if you truly feel like living in Sweden then do for a while at least. Lots of young people (in Sweden as well) feel the need to travel and discover new things. Sometimes it takes experiencing something different to help us figure out what we truly want. Good luck!





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